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.btn{display:block;background:#4A5744;color:#fff!important;text-decoration:none;text-align:center;border-radius:12px;padding:16px 20px;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:.06em;font-size:15px;margin-top:22px}\n.rs .small{font-size:13.5px;text-align:center;margin-top:18px}\n.rs .small a{font-weight:600;text-decoration:underline;text-decoration-color:#9BA17B;text-underline-offset:3px}\n@media (max-width:560px){.rs .hero .h{font-size:28px}.rs .hero .h em{font-size:36px}.rs .steps,.rs .two{grid-template-columns:1fr}.rs .step,.rs .step:nth-child(4){grid-column:auto}.rs .sec .h{font-size:25px}}\n\u003c\/style\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"rs\"\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"hero\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"kick\"\u003eFree guide · Your Boundary Script\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 class=\"h\"\u003eHow to say what you need without \u003cem\u003estarting a fight\u003c\/em\u003e\n\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"pills\"\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eFIND IT\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eNAME IT\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"pill\"\u003eSAY IT SMALL\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"lead\"\u003eEver say yes when you mean no, just to keep things calm? It works for a while. Then the little yeses pile up, and one day it all comes out at once. This free guide helps you turn the thing you keep swallowing into one kind sentence you can actually say, early, while it's still small.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"trust\"\u003e\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003csvg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\" stroke=\"#4A5744\" stroke-width=\"1.8\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"\u003e\u003cpath d=\"M12 20s-7-4.4-7-9.6C5 7.5 7 6 9 6c1.4 0 2.4.8 3 1.8C12.6 6.8 13.6 6 15 6c2 0 4 1.5 4 4.4C19 15.6 12 20 12 20z\"\u003e\u003c\/path\u003e\u003c\/svg\u003e400,000+ couples trust us\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003csvg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\" stroke=\"#4A5744\" stroke-width=\"1.8\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"\u003e\u003cpath d=\"M12 4v11M7.5 10.5 12 15l4.5-4.5M5 19h14\"\u003e\u003c\/path\u003e\u003c\/svg\u003eInstant download\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003cspan\u003e\u003csvg viewbox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\" stroke=\"#4A5744\" stroke-width=\"1.8\" stroke-linecap=\"round\" stroke-linejoin=\"round\"\u003e\u003ccircle cx=\"12\" cy=\"12\" r=\"8\"\u003e\u003c\/circle\u003e\u003cpath d=\"m8.5 12.2 2.4 2.3 4.6-4.8\"\u003e\u003c\/path\u003e\u003c\/svg\u003e100% free, no credit card\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"formcard\" id=\"get-the-guide\" style=\"text-align:center;padding:22px 18px 20px\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"kick\"\u003eFree · Instant download\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ca class=\"btn\" href=\"#get-the-guide\" style=\"margin-top:12px\"\u003eGet the free script\u003c\/a\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"small\" style=\"margin-top:12px\"\u003eAdd your first name and email, and your script opens right away.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"sec\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"kick\" style=\"text-align:center\"\u003eThe big idea\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"h\"\u003eWhy keeping the peace doesn't keep the peace\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"rule\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"margin-top:20px\"\u003eStaying quiet feels kind in the moment. But the need doesn't go away. It turns into resentment, and resentment comes out sideways, in a sharp tone or a fight about the dishes that isn't really about the dishes.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp style=\"margin-top:12px\"\u003eA boundary isn't a wall or an ultimatum. It's just you telling the person you love what you need, early enough that it's easy to hear.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"quote\"\u003eSay it while it's small, and it stays small.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"sec\" style=\"margin-top:56px\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"kick\" style=\"text-align:center\"\u003eThe three steps\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"h\"\u003eFrom swallowed to said\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"rule\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"steps\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"step\"\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"num\"\u003e1\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cp class=\"t\"\u003eFind it\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFollow the resentment back to the yes you didn't mean.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"step\"\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"num\"\u003e2\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cp class=\"t\"\u003eName it\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTurn the complaint into what you actually need.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"step\"\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"num\"\u003e3\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cp class=\"t\"\u003eSay it small\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eOne warm sentence, early, at a calm moment.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"sounds\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"t\"\u003eHere's what it can sound like\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\"Can I bring something up while it's still small? I've said yes to plans every weekend lately, and I'm running on empty. I need one Saturday a month at home, so I can actually enjoy the rest. Can we pick one together?\"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"sec\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"kick\" style=\"text-align:center\"\u003eInside the guide\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"h\"\u003eWhat you'll walk away with\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"rule\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"list\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003eSimple swaps that turn a complaint into a need your partner can hear\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003eGentle openers, and a question to end on so it feels like teamwork\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA version for people who tend to say yes, and one for people who tend to go quiet\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003eWhat to do when your partner sets a boundary with you\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFive things that turn a boundary into a fight, and what to say instead\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003ci\u003e\u003c\/i\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA fillable boundary card and a small plan for this week\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"small\"\u003eAbout ten minutes to read. You'll finish with your own boundary written out.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"sec\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"kick\" style=\"text-align:center\"\u003eIs this for you?\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"h\"\u003eMade for couples who care\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"rule\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"two\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"card sage\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"t\"\u003eThis is for you if\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eYou keep saying yes and then feeling resentful, you go quiet instead of saying what's wrong, or you want to ask for something without it turning into a fight.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"card cream\"\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"t\"\u003eOne honest note\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt's written for two people who both feel safe. If you feel afraid of your partner, or there's control, threats or pressure, please reach out to a local support line or counselor first.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"note\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWe're Kathy and Axell, the couple behind LoveSecurely. We don't fight much, and a big part of that is saying the small things while they're still small. This guide is the way we'd walk a friend through finding the words.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"sig\"\u003eKeep going. We believe in you.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\n\u003cdiv class=\"sec\"\u003e\n\u003ch3 class=\"h\"\u003eQuestions\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"rule\"\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"faq\"\u003e\n\u003cdetails\u003e\u003csummary\u003eIs it really free?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes. No credit card, nothing to buy. You'll also get our emails about relationships, and you can unsubscribe anytime.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails\u003e\u003csummary\u003eHow do I get it?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eTap \"Get the free script\", add your first name and email, and the script opens right away.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails\u003e\u003csummary\u003eIsn't setting a boundary a bit selfish?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eNo. Telling your partner what you need gives them a real chance to show up for you. Staying quiet usually costs the relationship more.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails\u003e\u003csummary\u003eWhat if my partner doesn't take it well?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eA little surprise the first time is normal. Give it some space and come back to it on a calm day. If you want more help holding a boundary through pushback, that's what Loving With Limits is for.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003cdetails\u003e\u003csummary\u003eCan I read it on my phone?\u003c\/summary\u003e\u003cp\u003eYes. It's a PDF, so you can save it to your phone or computer and fill in your boundary card anytime.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/details\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003ca class=\"btn\" href=\"#get-the-guide\"\u003eGet the free script\u003c\/a\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"small\"\u003eYour Boundary Script pairs with our \u003ca href=\"https:\/\/lovesecurely.com\/products\/loving-with-limits?utm_source=boundary-script\u0026amp;utm_medium=pdp\u0026amp;utm_campaign=lovelimits\"\u003eLoving With Limits\u003c\/a\u003e guide. 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