Honestly didn’t expect this to help as much as it did. We’d been in a weird place for a while kinda stuck in the same arguments. This gave us something to focus on together without it feeling heavy. We started doing the check-ins and kept saying why didn’t we do this sooner. It’s simple but it made a real difference. Things feel easier now more connected. Just glad we found it when we did.

Readying the content of your article/self reflections I have come to learn alot about myself and my attachment style and how that affects my relationship overall and it gives some great guidance on how to make improvements.

We’ve used other goal-setting tools before, but this one made the process fun, structured, and super meaningful. We revisit it every month!

We never knew how to slow down during arguments. Now we take breaks, reflect, and actually get to the root of things. Huge win for us.

The way it breaks down each love language made it easy for us to apply right away. We even did the questions together!

This made it easier to talk about things we usually avoid. We’ve been way more affectionate and kind to each other.

We’ve been struggling with miscommunication, but this check-in guide gave us a structured way to talk. It’s made a huge difference.

Now I don’t dread conflict—I feel equipped. This gave me and my partner a language for managing tension in a much healthier way.

We now understand each other’s love languages and it’s made our time together feel so much more meaningful.

This workbook helped us finally align on our goals as a couple. We feel so much more connected and intentional about our future.

The Gottman checklist and the CARE technique really helped us repair after arguments. We're using it as our go-to approach now.

Honestly, this guide should be part of every relationship. So practical, and it actually works.

My partner and I now do weekly check-ins thanks to this guide. We argue less and understand each other better.

We used to spiral during fights, but this gave us tools to pause and actually listen. The CARE method changed how we argue—for the better.

We always said we needed a ‘rulebook’ for arguing. This is it. Especially loved how it distinguishes reacting from responding.