How to Effectively Solve Conflict for Couples
How to Effectively Solve Conflict for Couples
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Are These Killing Your Relationship?
The Same Arguments on Repeat
You fight about the same things over and over, never actually resolving anything.
Emotional Explosions
One of you gets flooded, shuts down, or says things you both regret later.
The Silent Treatment
After fights, you go days feeling distant, disconnected, and walking on eggshells.
Feeling Unheard
You try to explain your feelings but it always turns into blame and defensiveness.
Sound familiar? You're not alone, and it's not your fault.
couples have stopped the fighting cycle with this exact toolkit
Your Complete 29-Page Conflict Resolution System
BEFORE Conflict (Pages 4-13)
- Pause & Self-Check reflection prompts
- Emotions Wheel (identify what you're really feeling)
- Misused emotion words chart (stop the blame language)
- Reacting vs. Responding examples
- Intention setting prompts
DURING Conflict (Pages 14-23)
- The C.A.R.E. Method worksheet
- Complete Gottman Repair Checklist (75+ phrases)
- Mid-conversation check-in prompts
- Time-out scripts that actually work
- De-escalation techniques
AFTER Conflict (Pages 24-28)
- Reconnection ritual worksheet
- Conflict debrief questions
- Appreciation statements & follow-up prompts
- How to prevent the same fight from happening again
- Relationship repair strategies
Bonus Tools & Worksheets
- Printable worksheets for each method
- Real-life conflict examples & solutions
- Quick reference guides
- Blank note pages for your insights
- Action plans you can implement today
Sneak Peek: What's Inside
The C.A.R.E. Method
A simple 4-step framework to navigate any conflict with clarity and compassion.
Gottman Repair Checklist
75+ research-backed phrases to de-escalate tension and reconnect mid-argument.
Emotions Wheel
Stop saying "you make me feel..." and start identifying your actual emotions.
Conflict Debrief Worksheet
Turn every argument into a learning opportunity for your relationship.
Real Results from Real Couples
"We never knew how to slow down during arguments. Now we take breaks, reflect, and actually get to the root of things. Huge win for us."
"Now I don't dread conflict: I feel equipped. This gave me and my partner a language for managing tension in a much healthier way."
"The Gottman checklist and the CARE technique really helped us repair after arguments. We're using it as our go-to approach now."
"We used to spiral during fights, but this gave us tools to pause and actually listen. The CARE method changed how we argue for the better."
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I loved "How to effectively solve conflict for couples" as it has given me some fresh perspective and useful advice on how to overcome in a respectful way the recurring obstacles I usually encounter when I have a conflict with my wife. Just need to put this into practice now.
The Gottman checklist and the CARE technique really helped us repair after arguments. We're using it as our go-to approach now.
It had a lot of info, maybe too much at times, but overall we pulled out a few tools that really stuck and made a difference.
We used to spiral during fights, but this gave us tools to pause and actually listen. The CARE method changed how we argue—for the better.
We always said we needed a ‘rulebook’ for arguing. This is it. Especially loved how it distinguishes reacting from responding.