Fluent in Love: A Couple's Guide to Love Languages
Fluent in Love: A Couple's Guide to Love Languages
Free guide · Fluent in Love
Love that actually lands
Ever feel like you're showing love and it just isn't landing? Most of us give love the way we'd like to receive it, and our partner might need something different. This free guide walks you through the five love languages, with real examples and questions to ask each other, so the love you give is the love they feel.
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The big idea
Why love gets lost in translation
Say one of you shows love by taking care of things around the house, and the other feels most loved when they hear it out loud. You're both trying, and you both end up a little hurt. You're just speaking different languages.
Once you know each other's language, small things start to mean a lot more, and you stop guessing what the other person needs.
Love is a two-way street.
The five languages
Five ways people feel loved
Words of affirmation
Specific compliments and kind words, said out loud.
Acts of service
Lightening their load, big or small, without being asked.
Receiving gifts
Thoughtful little things that show you were thinking of them.
Quality time
Phones away, fully present, just the two of you.
Physical touch
Hugs, held hands, a back rub after a long day.
Here's one question from the guide
"What are some ways I can make your daily routine a little easier?"
Inside the guide
What you'll walk away with
Read it side by side. The questions work best out loud.
Is this for you?
Made for couples who care
This is for you if
You both care but sometimes miss each other, one of you feels like the effort isn't being noticed, or you just want to know how your partner most likes to be loved.
One honest note
It's written for two people who both feel safe. If you feel afraid of your partner, or there's control, threats or pressure, please reach out to a local support line or counselor first.
We're Kathy and Axell, the couple behind LoveSecurely. Kathy feels most loved through acts of service, and Axell through touch, so we've both had to learn a second language at home. It's one of the things we come back to most, and this guide is how we'd explain it to a friend.
Keep going. We believe in you.
Questions
Is it really free?
Yes. No credit card, nothing to buy. You'll also get our emails about relationships, and you can unsubscribe anytime.
How do I get it?
Tap "Get the free guide", add your first name and email, and the guide opens right away.
Do we need to know our love languages already?
No. The examples and questions help you figure out yours and your partner's as you go.
What if we have different love languages?
That's really common, and it's exactly what this guide is for. Most people have a blend, too.
Can I read it on my phone?
Yes. It's a PDF, so you can save it to your phone or computer and come back to it anytime.
Fluent in Love pairs with our Building Lasting Love guide. Start here, and the rest is there when you want it.
